Christie’s Guide To Cock Sucking For The Frigid.
This one is for the ladies 
Dunno if there are any ladies reading this, but just incase, here goes. It’s explicit, but hey, were adults here eh?
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Fear of failure should not be a factor in good cock sucking. There is no one right way to do it, but I will give you my take on cock-sucking.
I think that you should be comfortable with your man. Sex should be an easy going thing and not something that you are constantly going to fear every time the light goes off in the bedroom. If you are not comfortable with your sex partner, maybe you should re-evaluate why you are naked in their bed in the first place, eh?
Maybe there is some subconscience reasoning behind why you could be in bed with a man and yet fear the unknown. Maybe my way of thinking is old fashioned, but I think you should be comfortable with your man and be able to talk to him about anything and know that he is going to be open and honest with you as well.
You shouldn’t have to worry about performance, after all the best performance happens naturally.
Again, if you are afraid of what your man thinks, maybe you and he should sit down and talk about it. Yes talk about these things, its the ONLY way you and he are going to know what each other likes and dislikes. Discovering new and unchartered territories is what romance and sexual bliss is all about. No sense in being inhibited when it comes to lights out.
If you are grossed out at the thoughts of oral sex, why not start out by taking a bath or shower together. Things can be pretty damn steamy and awesome things are BOUND to happen.
After that hot steamy encounter in the bathroom, head straight to the bedroom. Lots of passionate kisses all over each others bodies does wonders. Maybe you could start by kissing on the mouth and working your way down the side of their neck nice n slow and down over their chest, nibble on his nipple…drive him wild. Even if he is super sensitive on his nipples (like we are no doubt *rolls eyes*) it’s okay to flick that nipple nice n slow ..n all around. Lick your way down his stomach to that undoubtedly by now, rock hard cock..You know he is anticipating your mouth on his pecker!
Start out slowly. Run your tongue around the head of his cock nice n slow and slither your tongue down over the shaft of it. Massaging his balls all the while…slooooowly.
Start out by taking the head of his cock in your mouth and licking your tongue around it while its in there, slowly. Start sucking on the head of it slowly, but not too hard. Some males have extreemely sensitive heads. Take your hand and put it on the shaft of his cock starting at the base and working it up and down the length of it. slowly..but don’t squeeze too hard, but be firm. Stroking the shaft of his cock while u suck the end of his cock. Remember..dont suck it hard at this point. You should be really enjoying this and not trying to take home a blue ribbon for fastest cock sucker. lol
Try moaning while you are doing this and move those legs of yours apart. Be sure to position your sexy ass in his direction, while you are laying there beside him sucking his cock. Yep, forgot to mention he should be on his back enjoying this. He will almost automatically start running his hand over your hips and spreading those thighs will only cause him to explore right where you want him to. Hopefully you will be turned on and wet and he will feel this and really get aroused!
Start taking more and more of his cock in your mouth. Don’t go gagging on it. (Too soon for that. Not that you have to gag to suck a cock, but you might get wickedly turned on enough that you DO and that’s what I hope happens! hehe)Keep working your hand up and down the shaft of his prick, slowly but firmly as you take more and more of his cock in your mouth. Inch my by inch til you can’t comfortably take any more in your mouth. Keep working your mouth up and down on his cock, slowly. Let it easily hit the back of your throat. Massage his balls while you work your mouth up and down the length of his shaft. Do it slow. Don’t go wild til you are comfortable with it. It might turn him on to hear you gag, but it will be the end of cock sucking as he knows it, if it really makes you sick cuz you took it in toooooo far.
Conjuring up visions of him shooting a wad of cum in your mouth when you ARE NOT ready for it, is going to completely destroy any chances of you sucking his dick AGAIN for a long time. So - make damn good and sure your man UNDERSTANDS that he does NOT shoot his load UNLESS you say he can - before you start.. and it’s okay to remind him gently in the middle of things, believe me you will be able to tell when that baby is ready to explode because his cock will get sooo dam swelled.
Should you spit or swallow?
Well, personally I wouldn’t spit if my life depended on it, but something that you might want to try is telling him how badly you would like him to shoot it somewhere else. You don’t want it in your pussy? How about your tits. Your ass. Maybe a facial? Be different. Try something you haven’t done before. Hell for that matter you could suddenly develope a foot fetish and want the load on your feet! There is alot of creative things you could try to avoid the swallowing instead of just outright saying FUCK NO! I mean that does work and is effective, but if things get heated you might not wanna do that and ruin the moment so to speak. lol Course if you are as open as I am, and I am very open, i wouldn’t be afraid to say FUCK NO.
You shouldn’t be afraid and that is what it all boils down to. If it grosses you out, maybe you should try to write down why it grosses you out and see what there could be that might change that. Don’t like the taste of SKIN? Try putting hot fudge on it. not too hot though ! haha. I accidentally sizzled a guy cuz I microwaved some, don’t forget sugar heats up pretty damn fast ..so does tomato’s btw…lol
Don’t like chocolate, how about peanut butter..anything smearable, honey, jelly ? u name it…be sure he puts some on you too. Being messy can be alot of fun.
Some positions can be alot of fun in regards to oral sex. Keep in mind though to keep a position where you can be in control at all times when it comes to oral sex. If you are incontrol of the situation you find yourself less likely to gag or not be able to breathe. I would start out by being on top if in a 69, or just sucking it.
Something I don’t like is when a guy pushes my head down on his cock. I think my lover aught to learn in time, that I am good at it, and dont need any guidance and hopefully with a little bit of practice you will be too!
Well, hopefully this tiny tute will help someone out one of these days.